River: Done With 2025

Dec. 31st, 2025 12:29 pm
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I'd be a lot happier to see the ass-end of 2025 if I wasn't pretty sure that 2026 is going to be worse -- for the US, anyway. Maybe not so much for me; I fled that country a year ago. But my kids are still stuck there.

The details -- goals from last New Year's Day )

I make that 680/11 = 61%. Last year was 68%, so only a little worse. Considering how bad it could have been, I'll take it.

tenth divorce-a-versary

Dec. 30th, 2025 11:05 am
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Ten years ago today my divorce was final. Naturally, I texted Ex:

SistaWendy: Happy tenth divorce-a-versary?
Ex: Back at you.
SW: ♥

If you find that can't have a good marriage with someone, a civilized divorce is the next best thing. Go us.

I might celebrate alone with pho, Chinese, or Korean; I need to hit the supermarket down the hill.

Sunk cost is a hell of a drug

Dec. 29th, 2025 05:04 pm
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I watched Wake Up Dead Man over the holidays, and boy howdy did I love it. Like the previous movies in what we can now reasonably call a franchise, Wake Up Dead Man uses murder mystery framing to tell another story that runs alongside and through the murder plot. That story is about faith, what it actually is, what we’re often told it is in America, and how stories shape individual and collective identity. (For more on this, see this excellent Reactor article--though be warned, spoilers abound.) I love what Father Jud says about storytelling when he and Benoit Blanc meet for the first time, about stories being a pathway to truth inaccessible any other way. This is a definition of myth, one that I find personally resonant.

One of the tricky things about myth and story is the way they thread themselves through our identities and senses of self without our conscious awareness. Many of them we grow up with, and even if we consciously reject them afterward, that very conscious rejection is a kind of engagement. I felt some kind of way watching Wake Up Dead Man, because even though people with more currency in the Church than I have pointed out a few ways the movie gets Catholicism wrong, it gets enough right to bring me right back to Sunday school lessons 40 years ago.

And it’s the most important things that it gets right, anyway. The importance of grace, of remorse and repentance to redemption, and that kindness and compassion are neither weak nor passive—all of these are present in the character and actions of Father Jud, and are the best of what I remember from my own religious upbringing. There are principles I can’t help but live by, even though I haven’t considered myself a Christian for over 35 years.

These things aren’t just present in Father Jud, either. The movie spends its initial run time with him because the audience hasn’t met him yet, while those who’ve seen Knives Out and Glass Onion are already familiar with Benoit Blanc. I found Josh O’Connor’s performance and Father Jud’s predicament so compelling that I’d all but forgotten this was a Benoit Blanc mystery when he showed up at a miraculously convenient time. The movie is careful to make the atheist and the man of faith equally concerned with the truth, and then goes on to demonstrate—despite the ongoing argument between the two that eventually reaches mutual understanding—that they aren’t really in conflict. That’s almost a radical statement in 2025 America.

It's also in marked contrast to almost everyone else in the movie. Monsignor Wicks’s congregation—the ones who stick around, at any rate—are all in on his model of faith, and it’s a testament to the people of Chimney Rock (is Rian Johnson also a Choose Your Own Adventure fan, I wonder?) that most of them aren’t willing to put up with it. The ones who do stay have their reasons, and the irony is that every single one of them could find richer and truer fulfillment elsewhere. A few of them at least know that they’ve bought into something nefarious, but…sunk cost is a hell of a drug.

It's not just that, though. The stories we tell ourselves, and tell about ourselves, can divert from the truth rather than leading to it, and that’s just what the story at the heart (as it were) of Wake Up Dead Man does. It’s not even like the classic film Rashomon, where what happened depends on who’s telling the story. Here, it depends so much on what certain people want to be true that they’re willing to kill for it.

The thing about living a lie is that you have to keep lying, and maybe even convince yourself that it’s the truth. That’s the cost, and even Father Jud isn’t exempt from it.

Watching the scene in which Father Jud and Benoit Blanc finally meet, it’s remarkable how, even though Jud is at that very moment in spiritual crisis, he greets Blanc’s presence with curiosity. Their entire initial exchange consists of Jud asking questions and Blanc answering them. It’s a bit of role reversal, really, and toward the end of their conversation Jud says it himself: whether a story leads to a lie, or to “a truth so profound that it can’t be expressed in any other way.” No accident that the sun comes out at that moment, lighting up both Jud’s and Benoit’s faces.

The definition of a sunk cost is that you can’t get it back. But you can stop paying.

(Crossposted from Well-Tempered Writer. You can comment here or there.)

the Elliott Bay trail

Dec. 29th, 2025 10:07 am
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I have a little craft project I want to do, and I wanted to buy materials from a business that isn't gross, so I decided to ride my bike to Michael's in the Interbay neighborhood.

"Neighborhood" is a bit of a misnomer: the area has a whole lot of industrial, marine, and large retail businesses, plus a freight railyard and golf course. The residents of any of the nearby homes could credibly claim to live in Queen Anne to the east or Magnolia to the west; that's what I'd do if I were trying to sell such a place. If you live just north of Interbay, I'm pretty sure your place is a (house?)boat.

So you might expect that with a different kind of neighborhood comes a different kind of bike trail. Sure enough, once you get away from the ship canal there are tents, street art, a train carrying several 737 fuselages, a small unofficial skate park made from Jersey barriers, and a bunch of jogs and bends that aren't too well marked. There's even one section that's so narrow, and boxed in by two fences, that there are signs telling cyclists to dismount.

I ended up riding past the former site of the Wet Spot CSPC, now a storage facility. Sadness.

The ride is mostly lovely all the way from the ship canal to pier 91 on Elliott Bay, but I didn't want to go to Elliott Bay, remember? I wanted to go to a store whose access, like the others, is on Elliott Ave. That means riding your bike over the train tracks on one of two or three viaducts that were so not designed with bikes in mind. I'm glad it was Sunday morning and therefore traffic was light.

Stopped for groceries next to the canal. Cranked up the hill half a mile home. Uff da! But there was a vegan club sandwich at the end of it.

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Dec. 29th, 2025 07:02 am
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Being alive: excellent

Never being able to remember what to eat for breakfast: less excellent.

Every night I have something in mind for the next day. Every morning I forget it and often fail to eat because I can't sort out what, unless I write it down the night before AND remember to look at it.

Gruß vom Krampus!

Dec. 28th, 2025 08:57 pm
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A brewing revival of several years–I participated in my first Krampuslauf in 2013, though my getup was by no means authentic–seems to be reaching a tipping point. The Bremerton Krampusnacht was crowded enough to make getting around a bit challenging. Anything that popular happening in Bremerton is kind of remarkable, especially in December, though the weather was kind enough to cooperate.

Krampus is an interesting figure; not evil as such, but a sort of subcontractor for Saint Nicholas with the job of punishing bad children while ol’ Santa rewards the good. This doesn’t stop a lot of people from equating Krampus with Satan, on the logic I guess that any creepy looking figure with horns must be. (These folks might want to revisit their 2 Corinthians.)

It’s also interesting that Krampus is having a resurgence right now, or maybe just a surgence, since I don’t think he ever had more than niche currency in the U.S. before (he originates in German folklore). I can think of a number of people who I believe belong in Krampus’s sack, or basket, where they can cause no more trouble, can’t you?

(Crossposted from Well-Tempered Writer. You can comment here or there.)

Done Since 2025-12-21

Dec. 28th, 2025 09:23 pm
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The week's been a bit of a roller-coaster. I guess that's not unusual for me these days. It would have been worse without the cats -- Bronx is often a bit of a nuisance, but he's a very affectionate, cuddly nuisance.

QOTD: (me, elsenet, apropos feeling old): Today would have been my mom's 105th birthday -- she died a little before her hundredth. My 50th wedding anniversary will be a week from yesterday; it's the fifth I'll be spending without Colleen. Our oldest kid turned 40 in July.

Light is returning to the world, but my capacity for hope is rather limited tonight.

How about this glorious 8-bit version of Ravel's "Boléro"? Or Carol of the Bells [Shchedryk] near the frontline in Ukraine? (I'n a sucker for bandura music.)

Notes & links, as usual )

The goths do Christmas better.

Dec. 28th, 2025 08:25 am
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Took a ride share* last night to chez D, whose house was as I expected stuffed with first-rate baked goods, plus too many well-dressed people. It's only too many becasue D's house is about the same size as mine, and her parties routinely have at least twice as many people as have ever been in my place at once.

D and her friends can bake, boy howdy, and every horizontal surface had either quality baked goods, largely made by D, or a punch bowl accurately labeled "high octane".

Got to talk to Diminutive. She has a writing project afoot, for which I'll keep my antennae up. I asked her how she wasn't melting in that gorgeous black velvet confection she was wearing. "I'm always cold," she said. She does have the sort of build that loses heat well.

Queen J congratulated me on my impending surgery, and thanked me for Dr. D's name. I warned her that only my mother's death put him within my reach. She's had a hard time the last year and a half, but has gotten through it.

Cuties. Queerness unknown. Well, also known queers, but they're mainly taken.

It wasn't tremendously late when the heat finally got to me. Yes, me, the Florida girl. I was in bed by 2330. Je ne regrette rien.

Jealous of the hostess with the mostest, looking fabulous in '50s retro? Me? Not as much as you might think. I'm not about to take up baking, because in the words of my father, I'd just eat it.



*D only lives about two miles from my place, but it's really awkward to get to & from on a bus, involving either a monster hill, a long wait, or both. It also cooled of last night.
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The latex gang was to meet at Nectar for an eighties night, but I turned out to be a small gang: just yours truly, who lives just up the hill, plus the two organizers. Nevertheless, I had an excellent time. Well worth the time needed to wriggle into a latex LBD. And in a minor Christmas miracle, my son just happened to appear right behind me and gave me a ride down the hill. He was grocery shopping. Aw.

The music, etc.? Xtra cheezy. I loved it. Flashbacks to both my college dorm and my cross-country drive, boy howdy! There may have been... overindulgence. Indeed, the median age was somewhat older than the usual techno show, so things got rolling earlier and everyone seemed to be drinking more.

Tonight? A certain elder goth's annual Xmas party in Ballard, which if last year was any indication will have lethal quantities of excellent eats that contain sugar.
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Well, here it is, the last week of 2025. One of my goals for the year was to write an infodump post that I could point to, quote from, or email to people who I've been out of touch with. I never got around to it, and it's late, but maybe this will do.

If you're tuning in late, I need to mention that I moved with part of my chosen family to Den Haag, in the Netherlands, in October of 2024. Specifically myself, N, N's husband G, older kid m, and our four cats. N's younger kid, j, was already here, starting university in Leiden.

We're here taking advantage of the Dutch-American Friendship Treaty, which lets Americans emigrate to the Netherlands (or vice versa) and get permanent residency or citizenship provided they start a business here (or bring one with them). We're sort of doing both, with our little indie publishing company HyperSpace Express.

Our plan for the business had been for N to get into sewing and fabric arts, and me to (at long last) record a new CD. The best-laid plans, etc. What's actually happened is that I got very discouraged about my musical ability, and N decided to turn to writing. She's already published her first book, The World As it Ought To Be -- Stories from a Protopian Future. Please buy a copy!

Back in the US, my son R turned FORTY last July. On his birthday I started trying to write a "state of the Bear" post, got nowhere, and abandoned it three days later, a few days before the fourth anniversary of Colleen's death. I have written very little since then. But here I am. The last week has been kind of bleak, and a week from tomorrow will be our fiftieth wedding anniversary. It will be the fifth that I haven't had her with me to celebrate.

Fortunately, Bronx never fails to get a laugh out of me when he jumps up onto the dresser when I'm getting the food bowls ready. And this evening I was mentioning to G how the IBM 1620 has to load its addition and multiplication tables when it boots up, and he said "Snakes. Why'd it have to be snakes?" I haven't laughed that hard in ... I don't know how long.

Um... not really enough, but I want to post this today (see music), and it's almost bedtime. And I have cats to feed.

Christmas Day Eve at the Mercury

Dec. 26th, 2025 08:45 am
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I spent an awful lot of Christmas day asleep. That's probably a good sign that I needed to.

Put on my big, red, stretch velvet dress. Returned a DVD. Got cash. Got to the Mercury. Waited in the rain for the door to open. Got to see various peeps, including A (Foreshadowing!).

Then I got skeeved upon by a guy who claimed to know the artist of St. Rat and invited me over to the artist's place. I declined. He also claimed to be gay. Reader, that was totally not his vibe. He non-consensually touch me a few times.

In other words, this guy was the grossest tranny chaser I'd come across in years. Given the high percentage of trans women to be found at the Mercury, I suppose that was inevitable. A whispered in my ear, asking if I'd like a rescue. I nodded, and she walked me past the main bar.

A's main squeeze (Don't make me say "joyfriend"), who's AMAB non-binary and very much looks it is named J, not to be confused with J-the-lady, a pal of A's who happened not to be there last night. J-the-NB said that the aforementioned skeevy dude propositioned them. None of us got around to complaining fast enough, though, because a Merc staffer spotted the skeevy dude taking his belt off on the dance floor and immediately 86'd him. He whined all the way out the door. ¡Viva la Mercury!

On my way home I spotted DJ Wrain Havoc on her phone at the end of the alley. I waved as I walked by. She interrupted her call to say, "I heard what happened. Are you OK?"
I shrugged, "It happens." I'd encountered worse, but it had been a while.

Caught the last train home — it was an hour early because of Christmas, which I hadn't known — with two minutes to spare. Then waited only two minutes for the bus. A Christmas transit miracle.

Skeevy dude is close in age to yours truly. I sincerely hope that he learns not to be gross before he runs out of years. Someone ought to do some science on those fuckers. Where do they come from? Why are they like that? How can they stop being like that?

surprise Christmas party

Dec. 25th, 2025 10:15 am
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You might think a Christmas party couldn't come as a surprise, but if so you don't know Funny Lady. With three hours' notice she texted friends to come to her place in Georgetown for a "brunch for dinner" Christmas party.

Sure enough, there were grits with Velveeta, a "mountain of bacon", homemade donuts & holes, pancakes, scrambled eggs, and mimosas. Funny Lady is more southern than I am, you see, and had the urge to fry a bunch of food.

Pity it's going to start raining before I have time to ride my bike across Lake Washington again.

Anyway, I had a lovely time, including seeing a certain troubled youth from Lambert House! She seemed to be in a much better mental state. It's a little surprising that she knows Funny Lady given her age, but then again, FL knows everybody.

Funny thing about Funny Lady: she gets anxious when I propose taking transit from her place to mine, and did even when that was a much shorter trip. She's even threatened to pay for a ride share for me. Jeez, I make transit trips like that and even longer ones at all hours pretty regularly. Mind you, if it's late enough I just want to go to bed, so I used Funny Lady as an excuse last night to get home faster. But I took the bus* to her house and in my heart I'm a good mass transit communist.



*The 5 to the 124. Ba da boom, ba da bing. I got to see how cool the few blocks around FL's house are.
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Today is Isaac Newton's Birthday, so I'd like to start by wishing you all a very Heavy Newtonmas. I am thankful for...

  • Friction, and in particular socks with grippy bottoms for wearing around the house.
  • Gravity, without which those socks wouldn't work. (Neither would a lot of other things, of course. I'm also looking for a little levity, and not finding nearly enough.)
  • The reason for the season -- axial tilt. Also, having just about the right amount of it. (Uranus has way too much!)
  • Calculus -- integral, differential, and lambda.
  • Number systems in which infinitesimals are, um..., well-defined. I guess you can't say "real", can you?
  • Choice.
  • Having slightly less mass than I did last year. (Very slightly, but I'll take what I can get.) Good drugs.

weeknight sneakout failure

Dec. 24th, 2025 06:43 am
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I went to the Blue Moon for some house music and got mid-20th century Christmas music & jazz instead. Yes, I like jazz and yes, Brit was running things, and yes, the local house heads started to show up shortly before I left around 2000. And why would I leave so early?

Because I got paged for work. I'm on call into the new year. I did manage to get home in half an hour, handle the stupid* situation, do stuff that I hope will make a recurrence less likely, and go to bed late.

Mayunn, I feel like I deserve a Christmas break at this point.

Oh: I stopped by Scarecrow Video for the first time in over fifteen years to rent "Sinners" on DVD. I now have an account there under my current name. What took me so long?



*Stupid because our service uses an vintage 2010 open source queueing system that sometimes makes jobs just disappear. Or get stuck. The fix has so far taken nine calendar months of one or two developers' efforts on average. The worst of it should get fixed early next month, and the whole thing should be done by spring. Le sigh.

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Dec. 23rd, 2025 03:09 pm
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It's easy to forget what takes thinking. Right now, with all the snow outside, I don't have a lot of ability to do outside and thoughtlessly wheelbarrow things. Even snowblowing, which I try to do every 6" of snow, requires a fair bit of strategizing about where, exactly, the piles of snow will go and how to get them there (it can throw roughly 15' and obviously not through solid objects). Being in the house, I decided to tidy it a bit, and then the skillcult apple seed sale loomed and some scionwood became available elsewhere so I worked on making some decisions about which of those I wanted for next year.

Tidying the house is A LOT of thinking work. And not just tidying, but "should I get rid of this?" and "what things should go together in an area, which things should go into outside storage, and where should things go while they're waiting to leave the house or go into those areas?"

I made my seed order, made inroads on the house, and yesterday and today can't stay awake or think or follow a book. It's been awhile since I had to repeat audiobook spots four or five times, and I'm back to that.

So I guess I need to take it in smaller bites, though I'm not sure how.

There's about eighteen inches of snow out there right now, most of which fell in the last five days. It's good insulation against the -20.

All would be well except that Solly has realized going in the house keeps her from chasing deer away, which is her reason for existing (see: guardian dog). She's escaped from the house and will only come near me when we're nowhere near the house and I've shown her that my hands are totally empty of collars and leashes (she can get out of a collar in about twelve hours, so there's no grabbing her by a collar). She's sleeping in the chicken coop at the bottom of the garden, which is a nice 6x6' building full of straw, so she's nice and warm and dry. It's right where the deer come over the fence. I've been taking her food& medication out there in a bowl (which she stays away from me, since my hands aren't demonstrably empty, but will eat the food if I step back). I'm not chasing her, since she's not supposed to be walking at all.

I've given some thought to putting her in the small fenced garden & greenhouse with the geese. It's a smaller space, but I'm not sure how they'd all feel about such close proximity. She's allowed to stand and lie down, gentle range of motion is fine, but mostly rest. So we need to come to an accommodation we can both tolerate.

It's funny, Solly is such a ridiculous sweetie I'd forgotten just how intense these dogs can be when something gets into their guardian button. This is a dog who loves to lie on the couch or on my lap on her back with her paws in the air, but she's smart enough to connect the dots between going inside for a bit and being kept there for longer than she wants, and being inside and not being able to chase the deer away, and she's fully willing to deprive herself of all those things PLUS food in order to keep those deer away (she won't even let me feed her near the house in case it's a trap). Plus walking hurts her. The pain meds are making a difference but that just makes her do more mobile stuff.

I should be problem solving that but I snowblew her a path around the chicken coop so she doesn't have to drag her legs through the deep snow and I'm letting her chill until my mind is online again. I could catch her in the chicken coop by closing the door, but after a couple days of walking her to pee and otherwise leaving her in there she'd just have the door off. This afternoon I talk to the vet who might be able to do surgery "locally" (only 2 hours away) and then to possible funding sources.

The tornjaks in the province are all sold, so I don't need to make any immediate decisions on puppies regardless. It looks like there might have been some drama in the (quite small) breed group?

Whiskey is headbutting me for snuggles so I should go. I want my legs to work soon so I can get some water. I'm thirsty and the relative humidity is like 13%.

"at liberty"

Dec. 22nd, 2025 05:10 pm
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I've been low key on it, but I left Marigold (my previous employment, although technically I've had the same employment for 23 years) in November, and am looking for a new job--ideally in software engineering. The bulk of my work over the last 20 years has been backend services and daemons, but I'm pretty adaptable; I ended up with a bit of a niche at work because it was needed and I am good at it.

If you want to find my resume, it's on my minimal personal website; the html and pdf versions are here:

https://www.labcats.org/mneme/resume.html

https://www.labcats.org/mneme/resume.pdf
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So I woke up at 0330 or so due to a vivid dream, then tossed and turned for over an hour. Nothing unusual about that, you say, but here was ticket back to dreamland: turning off my morning alarm. I got an extra hour plus of sleep, and I still made it to work on time. This isn't the first time that I've managed this.

Am I unique this way? Does the threat of loud beepiness at 0600 mess with your early morning sleep as well?

adventures in solarpunk

Dec. 21st, 2025 01:13 pm
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So I mentioned that I'd like to charge various devices using solar power. Here's how that went.

First, the SAE-to-USB widget didn't work. Either there wasn't enough voltage or current coming out of the 10W solar panel to make it think it was plugged into something – it was, after all, intended for a motorcycle – or it was just plain defective.

I have an inverter, i.e. something that turns DC into AC. What if I tried that, and never mind the inevitable losses? First I needed to plug the inverter into the solar panel. The panel has an SAE-to-alligator-clip adapter, and the inverter has something that you plug into an automotive outlet, like the kind cigarette lighters use.

Pro tip: on an automotive plug, the pointy part is positive. The springy contacts on the sides are negative. After I did that, plugging a tablet or phone into the inverter's AC outlet just barely, intermittently worked. But I'd forgotten about one of the inverter's features: it has old-style USB outlets, which seem to work better.

What would really make things work is stronger light and fewer clouds, which aren't going to happen where I live for a few months. The acid test is, come springtime or so, can I recharge my bicycle headlamp in a few hours? If so, I'm all set for The Thing In The Desert.

Done Since 2025-12-14

Dec. 21st, 2025 06:26 pm
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Damned if I know how to summarize this week. Mixed?

Embarrassingly, I managed to confuse two deliveries (see Monday) -- I think because they had the same last digit or so in their package numbers -- so I had to delete a couple of annoyed-sounding posts. Hopefully before anyone noticed. The Roamate (combo rollator/powered wheelchair) arrived less than an hour later. Karma, I guess. The device itself seems pretty good, modulo some wierd design decisions, but will take some getting used to before I can write a proper review.

On the other hand, Bronx has been becoming an absolute cuddle-bug. He likes to be picked up and carried, which can be very useful. He doesn't always settle down into my lap after that, but when he does he has a nice rumbly purr. And my medication is still being adjusted; I seem to be getting into somewhat better shape. It's still not great, but I'm not complaining.

On the gripping hand, (covered mobility scooter)Scarlet the Carlet is broken, with a circuit breaker that doesn't want to stay reset. N, G, and j managed to push her home (under a kilometer, and NL is basically flat) -- we'll call for repairs tomorrow sometime.

In the links: MIT physicists peer inside an atom’s nucleus using the fact that Radium monofluoride's electron cloud extends inside the Radium's somewhat pear-shaped nucleus. Wild. Both the technique, and the fact that that compound exists at all. At least it's nowhere near as unstable as FOOF.

The Star Gauge is fascinating. (m sent us a link on the family Discord, but it was to tumblr -- the wikipedia article is less problematic.)

Notes & links, as usual )

social solstice

Dec. 21st, 2025 08:45 am
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Friday: leather dyke munch. Spread the joyous news of my impending surgery, chatted with much a cute, younger, and sadly taken trans woman. Yeah, bonding with other trans girls over all our stuff is a thing I do a lot, without really meaning to. And it usually reminds me of the many ways in which I've been lucky. I didn't stick around long enough to get my boots blacked because...

...I had a ticket to the Cascadia mini-festival in Fremont. Yes, just down the hill from home. Nectar became the First Church of House Music, Orthodox, which is usually my jam, but I wasn't feeling it too much, even with the esteemed Mark Farina DJing. I bailed at midnight headed uphill, and managed to turn my light out before 0200. I think I only had enough juice in me for one event on Friday night, and it was the first one.

Saturday: got sugared, got pho, got hairs did, and got a desperately needed nap before heading for [profile] aaminahlefae's solstice party, wherein were many elder goths. 'Nuther words, it was cosy.

I'd just gotten long-awaited silver cowboy boots from Stetson, so naturally I had to go full cowgirl, with the pink circle skirt with the black floral pattern & ruffles with a square dance petticoat, both of which I got from [personal profile] cupcake_goth, and the blouse with the ribbon & lace applique at the shoulders that I think is inspired by Jessica McClintock. Yeah, I knowingly wore pink to a party where nearly everyone else was in Christmas colors. Because punk or something?

And now for something completely different: consumerism. In addition to yesterday's boots, in the last couple of days I've gotten or will get:
  • A nearly spherical night stand lamp that I won't knock over in the dark, from IKEA.
  • A glass measuring cup from IKEA so I could get the free shipping. How did I go this long without one? Charlie don't bake, that's how.
  • A manual juicer, also from IKEA. I can't have lemon seeds in my chicken tagine.
  • An SAE-to-USB converter so I can charge stuff with my little 10W solar panel. That should come in handy at )'(.
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